Next week I’ll be moving into my new one bedroom apartment. I can’t afford the rent with the money I currently make, but I have a money market account and a couple fist fulls of stocks thanks to a distant relative I’ve never met before who died last year.
I’m dealing with the pain [...]
Posts under ‘Positive Thinking’
Flying Solo
The Importance of a Positive Attitude and How It Helped Me Get a Job
Here is my own experience on the importance of a positive attitude and how it helped me with my career.
At my last job (which I can now blog about since my last day there was one week ago) there were some questionable goings ons with the upper administrative unit. Earlier this year, [...]
The Perpetual Intentional Choosing
FINDING THE MOST DIRECT MEANS TO INNER PEACE AND LIBERATION
Looking back at the progress of my life, from being desperately empty, lost and almost always depressed to now knowing peace more easily and quickly at almost any given moment, it seems likely that “enlightenment” could occur within this lifetime. Maybe?
I am [...]
Seeing People as Sources of Joy
For many of us, especially those who are shy or have suffered from social anxiety disorder (like me), other people are seen as potential sources of fear. We fear rejection, criticism, or judgment from our fellow humans. Or we are afraid we might inadvertently offend someone by doing or saying the wrong thing. [...]
Thinking about Gratitude and Appreciation
Gratitude or appreciation is often used as a law of attraction technique in order to manifest more of what we desire in life. But I believe there is a catch to this.
When expressing appreciation in order to manifest something, the appreciation should not be expressed with anxious excitement. Instead, appreciation should be accompanied [...]
Dealing with Depression and Anxiety in 4 Steps
This is the basic formula I use to deal with any negative thoughts that make me depressed or anxious. It is the same basic formula that you’ll find in many self help books. I’ve often used these steps to find some relief while suffering from depression, loneliness, social anxiety disorder, anxiousness, or the [...]
Realizing
I’m realizing that life is a reflection of what I choose to feel inside.
Life is a palette. It is up to me to choose the colors.
So as I sit here with worries floating, barely above the conscious of my mind, pulling me down into the mundane, I remember that life can be more fun.
I [...]
My 100 Things List
After reading Mighty Girl’s latest blog posts on how Intel has decided to sponsor 10 items from her 100 Things To Do list, I’ve been inspired to create my own list. Actually, I’ve been inspired by Maggie to create my own list for a while, but actually seeing her excitement in being able to [...]
Affirmation: I Choose to Focus on the Positive
From now on, I choose to focus on the positive things I’m working towards, not on the things I think are holding me back.
Positive Visualization: Seeing Heaven in a Traffic Jam
Today as I was driving home from work through some very heavy traffic, I caught myself becoming annoyed with the other drivers. A car would speed by too fast (in my opinion at least!) and I would imagine the driver as arrogant and reckless. Someone would be too eager to get in the [...]